The Bad girl's Technique

 

How To Avoid Being Just A Booty Call




We've all gone through a lot of "promising" articles on how to keep a man , maybe based on his zodiac sign, age or even name. 




The reason why most of the advice given on these articles only work for a short period of time or don't work at all , it is not because the advices given are bad but there sure is something missing when all they suggest is for women to change something about themselves in order to attract or keep a man. though personal change may be necessary it's not always the ultimate solution.




Let me not drag this any longer ...


Confidence Is Key Not Arrogance

Rather than making him feel worthless ,unwanted or replaceable at any moment as a way to draw him closer to you.

Let him know what he means to you and how it would be a shame to have to cut ties with him yet do this without seeming too clingy remember we are all human just as women need assurance ,men do too.




Tap Into His Hero Instinct Yet Do Not Be Too Needy

There's beauty in femininity that women tend to lose all because they're trying to show their ability to do certain things  society has deemed impossible for women. Remember just because you can ,doesn't mean you should.   Learn to relax and let "your man" fix that simple light bulb for you or let him change your car's oil. I mean he will be delighted to do anything for you as it taps into his masculinity traits that makes him feel like a MAN so let him do it.




Nothing fulfils a man than knowing he is needed or he has a place in your life.

This does not only create a space or connection where there are other reasons for him to see or be around you not just for sex  but it will also allows both of you to bond on a emotional level were it gives him purpose to be in your life because you give give him the space to be a man .




Let's Talk About Sex

Do not be too available to his sexual needs to a point where he feels you are easy and starts losing interest.

Building sexual tension is a great way to keep him thinking about you

Let him know you miss his presence yet do not jump on his first call to have you over.



Now see a combination of all these steps will have you being on his mind even on his lowest days just the thought of you will  get him through because you've given him worth 


Do not forget being supportive and non judgmental. 


Now ask yourself which man doesn't want to keep such a woman by his side until death?





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